Welcome to datetards! This is a community dedicated to those of us who are clueless when it comes to dating, flirting, and how to conduct ourselves when we find that there's someone who's interested. Why? In short, we're insecure. We analyze too much. Or we're simply not willing to put on airs in order to establish a romantic connection with someone. Perhaps we're cynical. Or hopeful. Either way, we're just curious as to how it all works.
As with all communities, there are rules here. So without further ado, here they are:
1.) Only members may post. There are no restrictions on who can join, so why not take a few moments out of your busy schedule and get on that, eh?
2.) If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything. I'm all for healthy debate, but since the majority of us here have issues we're trying to work through anyway, we don't need any help feeling bad about ourselves. Blatantly derogatory posts will be deleted post haste and the author will be banned.
3.) Those of you who are a little more sure of yourselves in this arena, speak up! Let us know what works for you, because [insert deity of your choice] knows... we need it!
4.) There are communities here at LiveJournal where you can share sex tips (such as sextips, oddly enough). This is not one of them. I'm not prudish by any stretch, and plenty of lively sexual commentary and innuendo can be found in my personal journal, justdana (<-- shameless plug. Add me, if you want). This community is designed to help us deal with our frustrations with dating in general. Wanna get freaky? Go someplace else.
Well, I suppose that's about it. Join and post away, my dears. It can't hurt, and who knows... perhaps you'll find someone special here.
Until next time... xoxo Dana
This community created and maintained by justdana.