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hey all i'm a new member and my name is Shannon.

I have a predicament that I don't quite know how to follow up on. There's a library here that I go to quite frequently and the girl that puts the books away (the library page) has caught my eye. I want to present myself to her, but every time I try to go for it, I end up freezing and not doing anything. I tried to play it smooth today by looking at the books on her little cart thing, but that kinda failed miserably. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can become more flirting savvy to attain my goal here? Thanks.
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slick_will
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Time:2004-06-11 03:23 am (UTC)
Sorry, i'm no real help, but I was in the same prediciment. Hot library girl who I could not, under any circumstances think of any way to break the ice. So... I feel for you :(
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senrats
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Time:2005-11-12 11:14 am (UTC)
At first glance this is cheesey and offensive. Feminists will smack you, but if you look "un-jockly" and not like a playa, it may get a giggle.


I think I'll try it. What do I have to lose? I can play it off as being silly and no loss will come of it.
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senrats
Subject:Gender?
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Time:2005-11-12 11:12 am (UTC)
Shannon,


Are you male or female?
Please, no offense, but I have no idea how gays develop their gaydar to work well in mixed populations. A Gay club or event; it's obvious. Library, school class, Nine-fiver work.... how?

Shannon. If you are gay or bi, take into consideration that this girl may be straight. Sometimes it's pure fun to flirt with someone outside the sex pref. As an aside, nothing bothers me more than gay men who 'seriously" flirt with me, thinking they will get somewhere. Nobody enjoys unwelcome, in-your-face advances.
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harmonicastud
Subject:Re: Gender?
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Time:2005-11-22 11:43 am (UTC)
I am male you bastard. Just because my name is attributed to many females does not automatically mean that I am female. Next time you bring something up like that, check the person's profile first. Thank you.

BTW, to any future posters, my original post is out of date.
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senrats
Subject:Re: Gender?
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Time:2005-11-22 06:14 pm (UTC)
Sorry, but please calm down before resorting to calling people bastards. That could truly be offensive.

I had NOT forgotten that Shannon is a unisex name. That's why I asked, o' stud of the harmonica. I could have looked into the profile, but it's an oversight and not an insult.

Again, I didn't say you were a female, I asked and then wrote, I quote, "If you are bi or gay".
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