No posting in a while, eh. No bigggie...I'm eternally confused and bamboozled when it comes to stuff like this.
Ok, so, I get this email thing for guys about dating, and for the most part it always sums up into one point, which will be clearly illustrated in this next cut.
I'm going to ask YOU a question...
WHY are you BEING nice in the FIRST place?
It's because you WANT something.
"Oh, no", you argue...
"It's because I'm a NICE GUY."
Or maybe you think that you were born this way... to be "nice".
Or maybe you've even convinced yourself that it's the "right" thing to do.
Well, it's really pretty funny that the answer is staring you right in the face.
You keep proving to yourself over and over and OVER again that NICE DOESN'T WORK.
By the way, I love it when guys write in to me and say "I don't want to use the things you teach because I don't like the idea of MANIPULATING women".
Then I ask "Do you buy women dinner, or take them out?".
Of course, the answer is always "Yes".
I ask "Why?".
But I already know the answer...
IT'S TO MANIPULATE WOMEN.
Yep. And then the same guy says "Yea, but THAT'S DIFFERENT".
OK, before I get too far off track here, let's just summarize and say that it is EASY to be "too nice".
And it REALLY screws up your chances with women when you are.
Women are NEVER attracted to WUSSIES.
"Overly nice" equals "Wussy".
So, give it a read, and tell me what you make of it. Ladies especially. But yeah, any viewpoint is welcome.
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